"But I Have to Be
Doing Something!"
My son-in-law, Sean, and I were working on a small room
addition, wading through the mud as we put the sill plates
in place. Connor, my grandson, came out and said,
"Dad, I want to watch you work." Over the next few
minutes, the three year old watched and asked questions of
his father. All of a sudden he stated, "Dad, I'm bored
watching you."
"Okay, then go in the house with Mommy and play," replied
Sean.
With a little hint of frustration Connor claims, "But Dad,
I'm bored watching you."
Sean answers, "That's fine. You can go in and play."
This kind of exchange goes on for about a minute with Connor
becoming more frustrated each time.
Finally, Connor exclaims, "But Dad, I have to be doing
something!" What he had been saying all along was that
he was tired of being a spectator and wanted to be involved.
Wisely, his father brought him inside the foundation and
gave him a couple of tasks suitable for a three year old.
As Connor went about these tasks his dad would praise him
for the work he did. A while later, Connor wanted to
see how a wood chisel worked and I was pleased to show him.
Then he asked if he could try it. Since grandmas don't
like telling their grandsons "no," I responded by
telling him he must ask his dad. Realizing that a 20
ounce hammer and sharp wood chisel were not the appropriate
tools for a three year old, Sean told him, "Not today."
Not today . . . but I know my son-in-law well enough to know
that when the time is right he will teach his son how to use
a hammer and chisel, and he will teach him to do it to the
best of his ability.
Can you imagine the lessons taught here being put to use in
the church? Can you imagine babes in Christ watching
their older brothers and sisters diligently at work in the
kingdom? Can you imagine their desire to work growing
to the point that they proclaim, "But I have to be doing
something!"? Can you imagine the wisdom of church
leaders in harnessing this energy and focusing it by
providing tasks appropriate to the new one's talents and
maturity? Can you imagine the church praising the
efforts of the new worker rather than looking for something
to criticize? Can you imagine if those who were more
mature in the faith gently came alongside the babes, helped
them develop their talents, and followed this with the
encouragement to always work to the best of their ability?
Brothers and sisters: Dare to imagine. Dare to
make it real.
-J. Watson